Give Up! | Some People Just Aren’t Worth Your Energy

In today’s video blog I talk about how sometimes you need to realize that you can’t help everyone, because not everyone wants your help.

Sometimes we need to learn that some people are simply lessons, and we need to let go.
Sometimes we need to learn that some people are simply lessons, and we need to let go.

So recently I was burned. I was building a friendship which I thought was being based on trust and loyalty, where I was helping someone and their family out of a bad situation, and that there would be a lifelong friendship at the end. Nope. Burn. No explanation, no goodbye. Just a total burn. Sigh.

Sometimes you just have to give up! It’s so strange for me to type those words when all I ever say is keep going, keep going πŸ™‚ If it wasn’t for my Network Marketing career and the amazing Personal Development journey that I have been on because of it, something like this situation would have really affected me. My walls would have gone right back up for a long time and I wouldn’t trust ANYONE outside of my close circle. But, now I know that being like that is not necessary, and that there are beautiful amazing relationships out there waiting for me, at the right time. Now just wasn’t the right time.

If you find that you are chasing certain people, trying to make them see how you can help them, it might just be time to give up. You know that saying that the definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result? If someone is willing to stay in that viscous cycle, you might just have to let go and let them figure it out. Wasted energy is taking it away from those who need you, and the blessing that you can be to this world!

In this short video I talk about my personal experience, the revelations that resulted because of it, and how you can spot the signs that it is time to move on.

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18 thoughts on “Give Up! | Some People Just Aren’t Worth Your Energy”

  1. Hi Angel… it is probably the biggest frustration of this industry. You have the heart and desire to help others but they just don’t receive your message that way. It is sad but you must keep going and find those that want you in their lives. As you grow you’ll be making new friends and that is just a part of life in this industry.

    1. It is exciting to think that way John! I’ve realized you can’t force a friendship no matter how hard you try. It can’t be one-sided!

  2. Unfortunately you are right. I think we’ve all been there at some juncture in life. At some point, I just started to focus on me (as in growing myself) and just letting the friends come into my life. If I’m positive then I’ll attract other positive people.

    What do you do when these people are part of your family?

    1. Right. I have to remember that. I had thought that I did attract this person in my life, but I must have been mistaken.

      When they’re family….I think we limit our time but just love them as much as we can. God put family in our lives for a reason, and I personally feel when it’s family you never give up πŸ™‚

  3. I have also heard that definition of Insanity. I have been in the same situation with someone as close as family. I had there back so many times-even when no one else did and for legit reasons. The I was the one shunned-perhaps I know why this person has burnt all of their friends bridges-should have seen the sign. I still feel good about doing was was right for them-but no more wasted energy! Can’t help them if they won’t help themselves!

    1. That’s right, I totally agree! There’s such a huge part of me that still wants to help this person, but I have to realize they have literally said NO, and there’s not much more I can do. Can’t live other people’s lives for them. πŸ™ Thanks for your comment!

  4. As much as it can suck giving up on someone is sometimes the best thing. In the end you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves.

    I learned that lesson the hard way 8 years ago. Best lesson I learned though because it opened the door for me to meet my husband of 7 years. =)

    Thanks for the info on the webinar, I’m going to check it out later this afternoon.

    1. That’s so good Rena πŸ™‚ I have great family members, haven’t been so lucky the “friend” department, but that’s ok πŸ™‚

  5. It took me a long time to let go and and let a person I care about figure things out in their own. Now I just keep an eye on them and wait until they are hopefully ready to help themselves and accept help.

    1. That’s great Terri!! I’m still getting over this one, I don’t know what’s keeping me so down about it! I hope eventually I feel the exact same way, that it ended this way for the best! )

  6. Good advice. Sometimes you just have to keep moving on. Sorry that the friendship ended but there are other friends in the sea. Or something like that.

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