Excuses – Stop Letting Them Hold You Back

In today’s video blog I talk about how your excuses are holding you back from your success, and how to handle the excuses you will get from others.

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We all battle resistance daily.  It’s so easy to convince yourself “why” you can’t do something.  This can be in all areas of your life.  Why you don’t have time to exercise that day, why you can’t make time to eat healthy, why you can’t sit down and tackle that book you want to start, why you can’t make that phone call, or give that presentation……Each time you hear an excuse like that run through your mind write it down.  Take a look at your list at the end of the day, how does it make you feel?   You need to erase these excuses from your life in order to move into the life you long for.  The more power we give to these “excuses” the more power we are taking away from ourselves.

If you aren’t satisfied with where you are in your personal life, or in your business, it’s time to understand that the only one who can change your circumstances is you, and that the changes you need to make are easy!!

In the video I also talk about the excuses you will face from others as you build your work-from-home business, and ways you can get around those excuses.  When it comes to other people’s excuses, you really need to start to understand where those excuses come from.  Become a listener, and provide value where needed, and you will be met with way less resistance in business.

We were made to be stronger than anything we can create in our minds, and even if you don’t end up with the result you wanted once you do put aside an excuse and tackle a goal, the empowerment you get from taking charge and being stronger than your excuse is worth it!

So starting today, NO MORE EXCUSES! Remember that quote you see everywhere nowadays, “A year from now you will wish you had started TODAY”. 🙂

In the video I say that 95% of people give up after the first ‘No’. It’s actually after 4 ‘No’s’. The breakdown is as follows:

44% will give up after the first No.
22% give up after the second No.
14% give up after the third No.
15% give up after the fouth No.

And guess what? 60% of customers say “No” four times before they make a purchase! So most people give up right before they will succeed! Stand out and be part of the 5% that will persevere and be around for that fifth “No”, which will likely be a “YES!” 🙂

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Network Marketing – Why I Decided to Become “One of THOSE People”

In today’s video blog I share what changed my mind about Network Marketing and why I am now PROUD to be a Network Marketer!

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There was a time when if you mentioned the words “Network Marketing” to me I would laugh and turn the other direction.  That was also the time when I cared what others thought, and wanted to “fit in”.  Now, I want to STAND OUT and share with the world what a wonderful life Network Marketing can give to you.  It truly is a better way, if you are open to a new way of thinking.

When I first started, I got hit will all the same objections every Network Marketer face.s  Family and friends looking at you like you’ve lost it, people avoiding you, or telling you how “so and so” tried making their MLM work and failed miserably.  I think some of my family felt like I had joined a cult! They look at you like you’ve jumped on the crazy train. Everyone sets you up to fail. But that’s ok! There are SO many people on your team who will share your mindset and your excitement that the negativity will just bounce off you. So I decided to press on, stay unique, and chase after my vision of what a full time Network Marketing career could really provide me, my family, and all those people who’s lives I could change.

Network Marketing isn’t for everyone.  Some people are totally happy with a 9-5 job, 2 weeks of vacation a year, and someone to tell them what to do and how.  And if that’s you, then great! But there are so many people looking for other options, and I think it is so important that you don’t miss out on the Network Marketing opportunity just based on what others might “think” of you.

We are entering the end of the industrial age.  Where do you want to be 20 years from now when your children or grandchildren ask you where you were when everything changed? Do you want to say “I was there, and I hopped on board and that is why we have the life we have now!” or do you want to say “I was there, I saw it all happening, and I missed out.”

I hope if you’re a Network Marketer this video fired you up and that you will follow where your dreams will take you! If you’re not in Network Marketing, or are negative about it, hopefully this shed some light on the fact that there are fantastic people out there who believe in the opportunity, and that Network Marketing is a completely acceptable and respectable career!

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Dance in the Rain – Triumph over Sorrow

In today’s video blog I share my own personal story of how wonderful things truly can come out of bad situations in our life.

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I lost my dad to cancer a year ago today.  What followed was 3 months of sadness that I’ve never experienced before.  The feeling of utter loss can be devastating, and it’s hard to feel like things will ever be good again.  But, as the year went on for me, I began to see how my dad is still in our lives taking care of us.  I’ve been presented with amazing opportunities and can feel that he is looking out for me and my family.

My dad was the one person in my life that, no matter how crazy my ideas were, he would tell me how great of an idea it was, and be enthusiastic and encouraging.  Losing that person in my life has been so hard for me.  But I realized that even though he’s not here in person to root me on, he is with me in spirit and so proud of me.  This last year has really shown me that there can be hope out of our darkest times.  Even though things will not necessarily be the same, they can still be great.

It can be easy to allow our feelings to overcome us, and to go into the spiral of not feeling like things will ever get better, or that you don’t deserve it.  Or maybe you just feel like you don’t care if it gets better and have settled into the feeling of sadness.  If I can share one thing with the world, it would be to never lose hope.  Never lose your joy.  You are allowed to still be happy even when the world around you is crumbling to pieces.  Don’t allow yourself to be overtaken by grief, or pain, or hurt.  With everything inside you, find that small bit of happiness in your soul and use that to spread joy and love to others, and watch your world and the world around you change.

In my video I mention an obituary I read years back.  I forgot to say the most important part of it.  The way it read was “She left behind a sink full of dishes, a laundry basket full of unfolded laundry, and a house full of LOVE.” That is how I want to be remembered.  🙂

“Life is a gift, and it offers us the privilege, opportunity, and responsibility to give something back by becoming more.” ~ Tony Robbins

In reference back to yesterday’s post about getting over your fears, the day I spoke at my dad’s funeral was the day I completely got over my fear of speaking in public. So it goes to show that if you are passionate about something, taking that step to get over a fear can show you all of the potential you have inside to be an inspiration to others.

Thank you so much for reading and listening to me today. It was hard to decide to share this post, but I hope that if it impacts even one person out there, it was completely worth it.

I love you all, if you enjoyed my post today, please like, comment and share 🙂 Have a wonderful weekend.

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Psalm 23: The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.     He makes me  down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters.[a]     He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness[b] for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,[c]     I will fear no evil, for you are with me;     your rod and your staff,     they comfort me.You prepare a table before me     in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil;     my cup overflows. Surely[d] goodness and mercy[e] shall follow me     all the days of my life, and I shall dwell[f] in the house of the Lord     forever.[g]

In loving memory of Dave Chandler. I LOVE you dad and can’t wait to see you again.

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Overcome Fear and Unlock Your Potential

In today’s video blog I talk about how your fears will hold you back from your vision,  your dreams and your success.  The only way to get over that fear is to attack it head on.

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Imagine if you could get over your fears. What would you be able to accomplish? Would your life drastically change and catapult you into a life of success? The first step to getting over your fears is to get frustrated. Get sick and tired of where you are at, and the control you are allowing your fears to have in your life.

The more attention we give to our fears, the bigger they become. In the video I talk about how fear will step into your life right before you are about to do something big, and I fully believe that. Unfortunately we are programmed to play small in life, but inside you there is this burning desire to PLAY BIG! That’s because that is who you were designed to be, and the more power you give your fear, the more you will be held back. Fear is all in your mind. Fear just gives us an excuse to procrastinate. Get over it. Get mad at it! Attack it!! Think about what would happen if your fear came true…..would anything in your life REALLY change? Would it really be THAT horrible? If someone says no to you, does it really matter? If you are nervous to speak in a crowd, does anyone even really know? Chances are they aren’t thinking about how you feel, and are wondering what others think about them. Instead of allowing fear to make YOU feel small, make your FEAR small. Give it no power, take the first step to getting over your fear, and start living the life you deserve. You must walk over that bridge of fear in order to run into your dreams!

“I believe life is constantly testing us for our level of commitment, and life’s greatest rewards are reserved for those who demonstrate a never-ending commitment to act until they achieve. This level of resolve can move mountains, but it must be constant and consistent. As simplistic as this may sound, it is still the common denominator separating those who live their dreams from those who live in regret.”
― Anthony Robbins

I hope that this video inspired you today to go out and challenge yourself to do one thing today you are afraid of. I can personally guarantee once you do, amazing things are waiting for you on the other side of that fear. I’d love to hear your personal stories of success, please share them below or email me at coffeewithangel@outlook.com.

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Throwback Thursday – Jim Rohn on Why You Must Dream

In today’s video blog (with my surprise guest 🙂 ) I quickly talk about why I love watching old videos of the great Jim Rohn, and how he inspires me to be better and to appreciate that I am a Dreamer! Below my video blog I’ve shared my favourite Jim Rohn video. I hope it inspires you this Thursday.

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In this video Jim Rohn says “Become something unique on your journey here”. What a great way to look at life. Instead of always striving to “fit in”, strive to be “unique”! Make a change in the world. Dream Big and don’t ever lose your dreams. He says to make losing painful and to make sure to congratulate yourself on your successes. Make your dreams as important as every other part of your life instead of putting them up on a shelf thinking “maybe someday….”.

It’s so easy to find a reason to justify anything in our lives. There’s always a reason for everything we complain about, someone or something you can point to and say “that’s why this happened” or “that’s why I feel this way”. We all have a long list of reasons, and love to share it with everyone who will listen. What if you stopped playing the blame game, threw away your list of reasons, and just put YOU on your list? YOU are the only one holding you back or causing your troubles. You have the choice to change your circumstances now, just by changing your attitude and getting back to focusing on your dreams and how wonderful life truly can be. It’s not what happens, it’s what you do. We need to start thinking about what we can start doing now.

“Success is doing what the failures won’t”. Isn’t that great? Doesn’t that fire you up? I love it. This video takes me back to nights with my grandparents, watching All in the Family and drinking Orange Julius. Simpler times 🙂

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Abundance – What on Earth is it?

In today’s video blog I talk about the definition of abundance, and how to begin to wrap your mind around the possibility that there is infinitely enough of everything for everyone, if you just believe.

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This blog is in response to a question I received from a reader/viewer asking me to explain what abundance is. Once I sat down to think about my answer, I realized how hard it is to “explain” the meaning of abundance, and how to live an abundant life, and yet it’s probably the most simple answer there is. You just need to start believing. Believe in abundance and expect it, and it will come to you.

What is abundance? It’s knowing that we don’t live in a universe of lack or limits. Knowing you don’t need to worry about where ‘x’ is going to come from, because you know it’s out there waiting for you to ask for it. It’s balance, hopefulness and unlimited possibilities. Changing your thoughts from those of worry and into being thankful for your abundance will change your life, the world around you, and what you draw into your life.

Draw the line in the sand today and decide that no longer will you dwell on the negative things in your life. They will pass. There is good waiting to come to you. Accept that you will learn from the trials in your life, and be open to moving on into a life of joy, health, wealth and excitement.

In the video I talk about the book E2 by Pam Grout and the first energy experiment that you can try today. As I said, I am horribly tired today, and really failed at explaining how to do the experiment. 🙂 So, here is the cole’s notes version from the book;

You are going to ask the universe for a blessing, or an unexpected gift. You are going to give it 48 hours to send you a give you wouldn’t normally receive. Something that is truly unexpected. You don’t get to specify the blessing, but you need to give a clearly defined request and concrete deadline. Also ask to be able to recognize your gift. Believe that you deserve this gift, and don’t feel selfish. Set aside skepticism, not forever (if you are stubborn and don’t want to 🙂 ), but just for the 48 hours. Expect the gift with your whole heart. Pick a time to start the experiment, like now. Jot down the time and date. Ask for the Universe (God for me, infinite power for others, whoever it is for you) to make their presence known, and let it know you are giving it 48 hours to do so. Ask for the blessing and wait.

I hope you got value from this, and have fun doing the experiment! Share your results with me! You can email me at coffeewithangel@outlook.com or comment below.

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The Road to Success – 7 Questions to ask Yourself to See if You are on The Right Track

In today’s Video Blog I share 7 questions to ask yourself to see if you are on the right track to living the life you desire and to see if there are changes you need to make in your life.

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Nothing is more exciting then being on the road to living the life of your dreams.  In order to be successful in business for yourself, you need to understand where you are at now, and the why and how of where you are going.

Take some time and truly visualize the life that you desire.  What would you do with your time? How would you spend your money? Where would you live? What would the actual quality of your life be like? Then after you have thought about that, take the time to give some serious thoughts to the answers to the questions in today’s video .  If some of them make you uncomfortable, that could likely mean that there is something to work on inside of you, or in your current situation.

Before I got into Affiliate Marketing I was very closed minded and ignorant to the possibilities that Entrepreneurship could provide in my life.  Then when I really dove deep I discovered it was the career and life that I have been looking for, and is perfect for my personality, my passions, and for the life I want to give my family.  If there is something you want in life, GO AFTER IT!

I hope these questions help you to get on track to the life you desire, or help you to realize that you ARE on track, love what you are doing, and are living the life of your dreams 🙂


Remember to always DREAM BIG! No one can tell you what the size of your dreams should be.  If you feel it on the inside, show it on the outside.  Keep your words and thoughts positive, surround yourself with positive successful people, talk kindly to and about others, and think abundantly!

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Believe in Yourself – My Top 10 Ways to Boost Your Self-Confidence

In today’s video blog I discuss my top 10 ways to boost your self confidence, so that you can carry yourself with confidence and pride in your business.

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Last week we talked about how important it is be confident when you are talking to new customers or prospects. But for some people that’s easier said than done. How can you carry yourself with confidence if you don’t believe in yourself?

Confidence might be something you need to work on, and I give you 10 different ways to start making changes that will completely change the way you feel about yourself. Some are just easy tweaks in habits and some are changes of mindset. As you start to feel better about yourself a funny thing happens – you start to care more about others, and have more of yourself to give. You are happier, less stressed, and see the world in a better light.

One thing I didn’t mention in the video that I think is also VERY important, is STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU! WHO CARES!? Once I was able to get over that, my whole world changed. I realized most people are selfish, and thinking about themselves! And if someone is gossiping about you, they likely are jealous of you, or see something in you that they wish they could work on in themselves. My Grandma always used to say, “If people are talking about me, at least they’re leaving someone else alone.” I love those words, they are so true.

In the video I mentioned starting to state “I am happy and grateful that (insert your need)”. That should be stated about things you WANT to happen that haven’t yet. Be grateful for everything you have, but start stating that you are thankful for the things that you want like they have already happened, and you will see them manifest much faster! There are power in your words 🙂

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Avoiding Negativity – Is it Possible?

In today’s video blog I talk about trying to avoid negativity, and how hard it can be to remain in a positive mindset when you are constantly surrounded by negative people.

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The hardest part of changing your mindset is, how do you deal with the negativity of the others around you? It’s so easy to fall back into the same patterns, and join in the “Bitter Betty” discussions and gossip. It’s hard to do, but you must remember to not speak negatively. Just allow things to slide off you, and not give a bad attitude much attention. This may mean limiting the amount of time you spend with some people. Or if you find yourself in a situation with a negative person, you might just want to state “I’m actually working on my self improvement right now, and am trying to not think or speak negatively, so let’s move on to a different topic.” What can someone say to that?

I share a story of a situation I was put in yesterday that really tested my mindset skills! I was so tempted to get fired right up, but had to put the Angel who was swinging left and right back in my pocket, and let the new Angel shine. It feels so much better to be able to laugh at negativity rather then let it make your blood boil!

In the video I shared that you are the average of the 5 people you spend most of your time with. If you are looking for resources on who that should be for you, I will share my top 5. Every morning I watch Eric Worre’s Network Marketing Pro videos. Then I read and watch Ray Higdon’s blog at lunchtime. I watch a lot of Robert Kiyosaki on Youtube as well. I am currently reading Go Pro by Eric Worre, The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy, and Jab Jab Jab Right Hook by Gary Vaynerchuk. I’m in the market for a new mindset book, if you have any suggestions for a new read, please comment below!

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Create Your Vision – 3 Questions to ask yourself

In today’s video blog I share the next steps in really creating a solid vision for your life and the 3 key questions you need to ask yourself as you create the life of your dreams.

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One thing I have learned over this past year, that I didn’t know, is that “goals” for your life are way different than the “vision” for your life. Goals are small. Not detailed. I want ‘x’ by ‘x’. No emotion is really attached to them. A Vision for your life goes so much deeper, how will those dreams you dream FEEL? What will you do when they come true? How will that impact the people around you, what memories will you make? What does the air smell like on that vacation, or what do the cupboard doors look like in that kitchen in your beautiful new house?

I will get deeper with vision planning, as I think it’s a huge importance in life to spend time each day focusing on exactly what you want in life. Like I said in yesterday’s blog, I will offer a free webinar in about 3 months, and one topic will be on really diving into creating your vision. I recommend sitting down this weekend and thinking about your own vision in your life. Write down some notes. Cut out some pictures. Look at the world around you with a sense of joy and expectancy. Focus on what you want, and attach the emotion to it, and you will manifest the life you want, and it will feel amazing.

Remember to wake up expecting an amazing day and to state you are blessed. Make this a habit. Keep your gratitude journal, and see how these habits, along with seeing your vision will change the way you feel each day.

I will probably get more into affirmations in another blog to come, but one that I use I learned from Bob Proctor who is in The Secret. His was: “I am so happy and grateful now that money comes to me in increasing quantities from multiple sources on a continuous basis”. This is something I repeat multiple times daily, and it doesn’t need to be used for just money. Insert “customers”, “joy”, “love”, “health”, whatever you want into that statement, and you will draw it to you.

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